Bee in my Bonnet

12 11 2010

(this started as a reply to a comment and took on a life of it’s own.. ooops)

I guess a huge part of my point that I also should have mentioned in the original post is the whole inappropriate touching.  Like a teacher hugging a student back home is GASP horrible, which by the way, I do everyday because human beings need love and affection.   In Canada and the US I would at least be fired, at worst put in jail for child abuse.   Yet as k my boss, or the kids or their parents if they feel anything inappropriate is happening between myself and my students and the answer would be a resounding NO.  The older kids who still hug me regularly, do so because they love me and enjoy having someone they are close enough to that they can hug and express their affection.  The younger ones would hug a mouse if it held still long enough.  (this is a whole other ball of wax of things that blow my mind)  How is a hug, or pat on the shoulder inappropriate, but someone rooting about in your goodies is ok because someone somewhere MIGHT have something.  It boggles me.  We’re so obsessed with keeping everyone safe we want to box them up in mice padded little packages and never let them out… then we’ll all we safe.  Dead and soulless, but dang nab it .. we’ll be safe!
But perhaps if I put it this way you might be able to relate with my perspective more, or perhaps not (shrug).  But when I was younger ie teen (younger being relevant because if someone said it now I’d smack them) someone told me that I was dressed to sexily and I was asking to be raped by walking around like that.  As a young person it really got me thinking, I mean I should be afraid of rape.  And as a woman not wanting to be raped I don’t want to bring it on myself, dressing provocatively means you’re asking for it.  So if it happens then it’s your fault.
Now if you agree with this line of logic.. blink blink… but hell more power to you.  But I don’t see many really feeling that is quite right.
I think a man or a woman should be able to walk around stark naked with damn bells on their nipples (ok I don’t because I’m a prude) but the point is they aren’t fucking asking to be raped by doing it.
So how does this relate?  Because, living in a constant state of fear, and curbing our normal behaviours to stop some potential (and extremely improbable) threat is ridiculous.  And even worse allowing others to take away our rights and privacy that we as westerners value so much and have fought so hard for.  To just hand it back over to the powers that be because we’re afraid of the boogie man is insane.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpcMLmQg9_s

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3 responses

8 05 2011
Jorge1958

Hey Magda Li Tzu! guy from the poker game last night, just thought this on BBC news today appropiate to this post and perhaps worthy of your keen commentary. Not stalking you, your blog is an interesting read…(got down this far :-).
Stay well
Jorge

9 05 2011
Magdalicious

no worries 😀 it’s all public like so people can read it 😀 took me a min to remember what this post was about though 😀 Thanks for the link.. yeah I saw it mentioned (the first one was in Canada.. exactly my point) no on is ever asking for it… just rude.

8 05 2011
Jorge1958

rats!…forgot to paste link lol

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-13320785

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