Stepping outside of the box, the zone of comfort, is very challenging for a lot of people. I am most definitely one of them. It may not seem like it but really I’m a sissy pants, I like my routines, I like hanging out with the people I know, going to the places I’m used to. I like everything fuzzy and it’s right place
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Go out stay in, I choose the easy comfy decision. But when I don’t, something good or at least interesting happens. For example, last week I had dinner with a friend (totally normal) went home and realized that I was supposed to meet a friend at a pub at 9… sigh it was cold, a little late and I had to work in the morning. I so very much wanted to bail, and anyone else and I would have but he was leaving and I hadn’t got to see him yet. So I sucked it up and went, and had a great time talking to my friend and a couple of other people there. Met some new people and had some fun and engaging conversation
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This past weekend, I jumped out of the zone feet first. And some ridiculous-ness ensued as any of you who are on my Facebook have seen snippets of in my status updates. I ended up taking the train out to Zhong Li to have dinner, drinks and bowling with some people. I hate the train… generally speaking I avoid all forms of public transit, for a multitude of reasons. But worst of all, I never (have to) take the train so the whole experience ends up being really stre Read the rest of this entry »







It’s all about micro expressions, and how you can tell people are lying. They have all kinds of real life references, pictures etc of famous people that have been later been proven to be lying. (like that OJ kid)
Do have any idea how much porn has changed the world? What kind of control and effect it has had on the modern world, consumer products and a million other things?
Did you know that the reason VHS became the primary technology was NOT actually because Sony wouldn’t let anyone else use the technology. It was due to the porn industry choosing VHS as the platform on which to produce their films because it was cheaper for them to produce.. and suddenly.. loe all kinds of people had a VHS player (why buy the expensive one that won’t play your sexy films on it??)
I freely admit I am a moron. I’m am terrified of failure, coupled with my shrieking fear of change I’m nigh on crippled half the time. The other half I just rock and stare at the wall praying it will all go away now, it never does you know.
If all you ever do and try is what you’re confidant of, you will never even come close to reaching any kind of potential. You will be like everyone else, mediocre, average, CRAP!!!

Who is closer family, friends? Is blood thicker than water? You can pick your friends, but not your family… or can you?
So who is a friend? Who isn’t? What makes someone your friend? A great time over a drink and a chat, regular lunches and confiding, close reliance on each other, there in a crisis, regular conversations, occasional deep and serious conversations, keeping in touch, or just
It’s my friend Becky’s birthday. Becky is super awesome cool, and tons of fun. I think my favourite was the time that I showed up and rang her door bell with no advanced warning, from Taiwan
to the times we do hang out. Especially as we both have been working on being awesome possum, it’s great having someone cool to confer with who totally gets the need to have positive, fabu people to interact with.
Bex was having trouble with math so I used to go over and tutor her a couple times a week and hang out afterward. She was always fun, and good for a giggle. Didn’t really bother us, but it was a little weird back in school to be friends with someone a couple years out of your grade. That’s us always pushing that envelope (in a good way!
and most awesome an encouraging word. Perhaps you don’t know how important that kind of thing is, but it has value beyond words.












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